It's the law of order: Your born, your a child, your a teenager, then you're an adult.
As we grow older we learn new things, new lessons, new strengths. As we grow older the lessons we have learned should help us become wiser, more aware and stronger.
I can't tell you how frustrating it is for me to sit and watch people stay idle. They physically get older but still act like a child. Fits and tantrums are the norm for them.
I have met a few in this last year of my life that have thrown me for a total loop. I take pride in being strong within myself and working hard to please myself and not worry about what others think. I don't worry about who likes me or who doesn't like me or what I was or was not invited too. It to be honest is not all that important to want to be liked by everyone. Not everyone we meet we are going to like in life. I know I am a good person and mean well and most everyones else does too.
But please to those out there that think they for some reason think that everyone ALWAYS attacks them and always wonders why they seem like the third wheel. Maybe it isn't them, maybe it's YOU. Have you ever taken your own inventory? Have you ever taken note of how you interact with people. SOmetimes acting like a total know-it-all isn't the best course of action. It turns people off, or seeming to judgemental. Go with the flow....